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Rashi Sharma

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Apr 30, 2015

 Hi All,      Need suggestions on this. My child is 13 months old (happy and  inquisitive). But when it comes to not giving him things he wants he shows tantrums and also sits down on the floor with a crying noise without tears as if he has hurt himself. What should i do to make him understand whats gd and bad for him?? and also   he loves throwing things on the floor or from the bed. I am fed up of this activity of his.. PLs help

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Nita Sahni

| May 03, 2015

Shruti-i have tried this as well at times especially when my child is tryong to get my attention.

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shruti vinay iyer

| May 02, 2015

Hi moms me new to this blog I face the same problem with my son but I just go mum and pretend as if I am not watching him

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Divya

| May 01, 2015

Rashi Sharma, i totally agreee with aanchal here that let the child cry it out. sometimes a bit of strictness works. he may cry louder, throw things, puke, cough etc.. let it be. because children need to understand that a no means a no and anything they do will not affect moms decision. but also, weigh out the situation. dont say a no to him for everything... try this harsh trick onyl once in a while or it will loose its effectiveness. where he is asking for something small that you can give him without harming him or putting his safety at risk, let him have it, but if it is a serious thing or a situation where you can't give in, then be firm.

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Aanchal

| May 01, 2015

Rashi Sharma, sometimes what we need to do as parents is show lots of patience and let the child cry it out. LEt him throw his tanturms aand don't pay attetion. it may continue for sometime, but sooner or later the child will get the point that my mom means business. ALso, do not let any other family member try and quieten him.

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Parentune Support

| Apr 30, 2015

Hi Rashi Sharma You may also find this blog helpful- http://www.parentune.com/parent-blog/how-to-say-no-to-a-child/390

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nitin

| Apr 30, 2015

Rashi Sharma - a video from the same workshop here: http://www.parentune.com/video/details/?v_id=16

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nitin

| Apr 30, 2015

Rashi Sharma , Here are some excerpts from one of the workshops we did addressing these issues with practical tips on a day-to-day basis. Hope this helps. http://www.parentune.com/parent-blog/handling-aggression-in-children/336

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