can you please give me sum tips for the judgement of best child behaviour?child-psychology Corner
It is important for you to separate the child from the behaviour. Many a times we label the child according to the behaviour. example, you are bad. you are naughty, you are good. However, it is important to note that it is the behaviour of the child which is acceptable or unacceptable. If your child is angry and screaming and shouting you need to understand what has triggered the anger and address the situation. Also teaching your child how to respond and cope with anger is important. Similarly, role playing the acceptable behaviour is important. example, if you do not want your child to watch too much of TV or look into the mobile for too long, then you must also not spend too much time in front of the TV or mobile. If you are eating while watching TV, your child may also eat while watching TV. Setting rules and boundaries is very important. Be consistent in following boundaries and rules, however some flexibility may be required according to the situation. It is important as parents for us to teach the acceptable behaviours to our children and address the unacceptable behaviours. Take Care.