Hello. ..my son is 5 years old .he is gud in study and other activities like sports, dance, drawing and he is super active boy. but his behaviour is so aggressive some time. ..shouting very loudly ...don't eat food properly spread on the table and don't value of things. even i teach every time when he does misbehave. ...he promis me next time ni hoga n also said sorry but after some time he do same thing. ...I don't know what I can do... plzzz suggest me some advice .education Corner
Aggression can be due to any of the following reasons: 1.Attention seeking behaviour It looks that you have pampered him and he has got away with his tantrums. 2. He is experiencing some difficulties- could it be his hyperactivity? If it is seeking attention - you have to spend quality time with him. When he is aggressive - remain calm and move away. Come back to him later. Go to his level ; look him in the eye and firmly tell him that you understand he is angry or irritated. It is ok. But it is not ok to behave aggressively. And set a consequence. If he shouts or screams he loses the privilege of 30 minutes of play. Keep doing this till he learns that emotions are ok but the behaviour is not. If it ishyperactivity then you can consult a psychologist for an opinion. You can channelise his energy by enrolling him in after school activities; allowing him to run and play outdoors etc. Please read this blog & watch this expert video https://www.parentune.com/parent-blog/handling-aggression-in-children/198 I hope this helps.