hi mam I have twins kids boy n girl both r in class 6 mam dauthter is very intellige nt in studies beta bilkul opposite ha he even not good in stufies ma apana beta ka liya bahaut parashan hu mam Pls help me ki us ko studies accha kar sake wo mari bilkul nahi sunta ha so pls help me he totally depend on her sister for studies for regular school also even not ready to complete his regular work so pls help me give proper suggestions can change his school help me mam pls

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You can ask your daughter not to help him. Allow him to do his own work. Set up an incentive system. Remove a privilege as consequence. Reward when he does his tasks. Set a routine. Yes you can als think of changing schools but will his behaviour change? He can still get dependent on someone else. Hence it is wiser for him to be in the same school but do inculcate good habits. Do not allow your daughter to complete his work. Allow him to face consequences at school so that he becomes independent. Do not compare. Each has his own pace and way of living life. Encourage him in what he is good at.

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