hi Mam if I said my son to do something he replied let me do first this thing(what he want to do) then I will do it. n he do that work what I said after completing his wish or work. is this ok ?bcz I felt I make his habit to do what he want to do, not make his habit to follow others while they r not supportive. ur guidelines pls.....education Corner
He is asserting his independence. During this phase you could be supportive by offering a choice- would you do this now or after your work? This way both of you are clear.