Hi. My daughter is 3 years and 8 months. She is a shy girl but very smart at the same time. She takes time to get comfortable with others. She has been going to a play school from 2 years. Now she started going to Nursery class in an actual big school. The problem is that she never wants to go to school. She keeps crying in school as well. She even speaks while sleeping that she doesnt want to go to school. The situation was same two years ago. She kept crying for more than one year for not going to the play school also. I am really afraid that the same situation will happen here in this school also. It is so hard for me to drop and pick her from school as i have to her crying face every tine. Please suggest some techniques which will be helpful for her.

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Well you have mentioned that she is shy. She will take time. Maybe a year. But do remember that it will only last that much. Some children are more sensitive than others. So they will take time. We have to wait It out. Patiently talking to her, reassuring her and talking positively about school should be done by all family members. Please do not break your routine of sending even if she cries. Spend quality time in the evening to make up. Keep motivating through stories. Reward her when she has a normal day.

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