hi. my daughter is 4 yrs old... she shows anger very easily on anything... even if she is not able to play for eg. she has missed a catch while playing with a ball.. she becomes angry very easily.. I am very much worried about her.. but don't know how to handle her anger.. plz suggest something so that I can make her learn how to be happy... I am also worried that she get instigated v easily by anyone... and don't like to mix up with people...child-psychology Corner
I understand your concern At every stage children will try to establish their individuality. Being patient and engage in open communication helps. Allowing them to do some things on their own empowers them in a positive manner. Listening to what she has to say will help yo understand her better. Give them decision making options and they will feel important. Involve them in setting rules, consequences and routine. Talking to her about the expected behaviour helps. Also help her to understand various emotions. Go down to her level, maintain eye contact and tell her firmly but warmly that ,' you cannot show such behavoiur'.. I hope this helps. Please do read our blogs on the topics of behaviour, role modelling. Also, here's a link of a blog which may be helpful. https://www.parentune.com/parenting-blog/how-to-build-character-traits-in-your-child/505 You can read the following blog to help you in this https://www.parentune.com/parent-blog/top-10-anger-management-techniques-in-parenting/588 Hope this helps. I hope these give you some ideas.