Hi. My daughter is 9 yrs old. Nd now i m a single parent living with my own parents . My daughter' s behaviour is becoming rude. She alwys remains ready to answer. koi baat nai maanti kisi ki bhi. She is gud nd sweet at her school nd wid her friends but usko koi thoda sa bhi kuch kahe to ek dam se bahut gusse me aa jati hai nd ulta jawaab deti hai. Mere sath fr bhi theek hai bt or kisi ki koi parwah nai krti. Wo apne father ke ghar bhi aisi hi thhi. Nice and sweet with friends nd rude at home. Main usko daant ti bhi bahut kam hu pyar se hi tackle krti hu usko so that uska gussa or increase na hoye. Wo promise bhi krti hai baar baar ki dubara rude behave nai karungi bt jaise hi koi thoda sa kuch kahe usko wo fr se gusse me aa ke ulta jawaab deti hai sab ko. I dont know how to deal with this. plz help me

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As you mentioned you now are a single parent. And she must have also known and seen the transition of just yoy being her guardian instead of both.. A kid anyday is a kid and fails to properly accept to such big issues. The behavior could be a result of her thinking that now she has to safeguard herself by her own.. And also an attempt to show she's big, mature, and independent.. So it is advisable to give her some time and in meanwhile try getting more close to her and do things with her which she enjoys.. On the other hand you can also seek a help of a child counselor if all of your attempts fail https://www.parentune.com/parent-blog/handling-aggression-in-children/198?lang=en

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