Hi Priya, I understand your discomfort when your students cross your personal line. to deal with this problem ,May you tell me since when she started this behavior with you? If you could recollect Could you relate anything of you to her behavior, what she was getting from you that she was not getting with anyone or even her mom. ? Once if you could identity, talking to student openly about it in a way she that she understands the root cause of it would help her to be aware and work accordingly . Also if not you could refer her to the school counselor. Do let me know if you need anything in more in specific Ms Nair, As per your reply to my query, the girl most of the time talk negative things about her mother( is a lawyer and is busy most of the time) like very strict, scolds her alot, demean her etc. , but her father is close to her. She also escaped/survived a horrible accident, whose clip she sent to me. Then this girl said that I like many teachers in the school but she loves only two teachers and that's me and her class teacher. She also said it's only after meet information me she has become free, lively and happy person. otherwise earlier she was very quiet, sober and innocent person. when I cry she cries, went I scold her she feels very dejected and it effects her alot. she is even not leaving the school as I am there. Ma'am do you think All this is happening because I give lot of time, importance, value and affection to my every student, which is she not getting anywhere. kindly guideeducation Corner
Yes indeed. You are doing a great job in helping and guiding students. She needs to feel emotionally safe for now. Gradually help her to become independent. Guide her to express her feelings. Then brainstorm with her for solutions. Help her to solve her own issues. Listen to her when she needs you. Engage her in various activities. Take care.