Hiiii my son is 3years3months old,plz suggest me that how to control my son,he does not listen to me..... Day by day he being so stubborn...... I don't know how to control him........ He is very misbehaviour,mischievous and high temper.......... If I go on saying no don't do that, Mumma will hit you,he will not listen to me and he will be doing the same work....... Atlast I m fedup by hitting him day and night...... And also if I hit him he will hit me back and he is giving me the back answers also....... plz give me any suggestions that how can I control my son doing all the wrong thing's....... plz i request you bcoz I have lost my patience...... so always I'll be hitting him throughout the day till sleeps at night.......education Corner
Parenting is a difficult task. Patience is the key in dealing with children. He is just exerting his identity and independence. There is nothing that cannot be solved through communication. You have to be patient and supportive. Listen to him. Observe what he wants. He is making choices and decisions in his little world. Understand from his perspective. You can offer options to him. Create an incentive based system to get him into good routine and habits. Reward a star for good behaviour. Allow the child to express and explore. Then guide him on what you expect. Talk to him. Children Role model us. Hence role Model the behaviour you want. They do as we do and not as we say. When you get angry move away. Go and have some water. Come back when you are calm. Tell him that you are not angry with him. You are angry with his behaviour only. Please find some handy tips here to go about inculcating discipline for your child. https://www.parentune.com/parent-blog/love-or-fear-how-do-you-discipline-your-child/771 I hope these give you some ideas.