How to control anger... My gal is 2. 10years old.. Whenever I Shout at her... She keeps on cryg.. Then I beat her..... Can't control my anger pls help..... I dnt have patience... how can I change my habits..education Corner
From 2-3 the period is called terrible twos:). It can continue for a year more. Do not take it personally. She is learning to mind her own mind. She will want to be independent. Offer choices to her. I know it is tough but you have to be very patient. Her behaviour is just attention seeking. For children attention is equal to love. Every year there will be changes. She is bringing out her identity and independence. You have to be understanding and see from her perspective. She is exploring and curious. It would be wise to enroll her in programs offered in public spaces there. Public libraries often have activities for children. You could also look out for a day care or play group to engage her for three hours in the day. You have to be patient, very patient and supportive of your child. Move away when you get angry. Think from her perspective cage is a mere child.