I am mother of 12 year old girl. I don't know why I get angry on her every now and then. she has gone very much down in her studies n even has failed 2 times in her academic year in social studies n science but she is very good in languages n maths. she does like these 2 subjects n finds it very boring to learn the answers. till now she used to go for two different tuitions one for maths and one 4 languages. she used to study with me for these 2 subjects, butlooking at her marks I have kept Tution 4 her. but the thing is that she gets tired n sleep after coming from school n I have to wake her up from her half sleep . I have even told her not to sleep in afternoon but sleep early at night instead but she doesn't listen to me. she starts to shout if I try to explain her that it is wrong on her part of this kind of behaviour. any time that she is free wants to chat on mobile. we have not kept a television at home as v have 4 kids in our house n the whole time either of them want to watch TV n other kids also sit watching . so is there any solution u could suggest as to how I can change my behaviour towards her n create more interest on studies in my daughtereducation Corner
She is a tween now or a pre teen and her behaviour will change. So do be accepting and patient. You could spend an exclusive time -45 min on a weekend to hang out with her. It will help you to understand what she wants or likes. Slowly build your communication and be supportive. Please read the blog for effective studying https://www.parentune.com/parent-blog/make-study-time-effective-with-pomodoro-technique/2881 I hope this helps.