I am working mother if 3 yr 10 month girl child. she is smart and understands emotions and responsibilities. she was extrovert till we shifted to Hyderabad. after coming here, she is not being so outspoken as previously. due to my work pressure, I get to spend less time with her. most of the times, I control my anger. but these days, am becoming emotionally weak and am unable to control my anger and ending up shouting at her. am worried ...how can I bring back her outspoken skills? with the clause that I can definitely have control on my anger

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She is hardly 4 Even adults take time to adjust to new surroundings. She is experiencing the pain and burden of adjustment. So you have to be appreciative of her. You have to be very patient and supportive of her. If she is an extrovert she will come back to her original nature. Do not allow your guilt of shifting onto her. You are projecting your weakness and guilt onto her. She is merely a child. Understand fromher little mind. It is not the number of hours that you spend with your child. It is the quality. Even if you spend half hour with her spend it well. Have a regular ritual of putting her to bed, share your day events , read a story and just hang out with her. This will take 30-45 minutes. When you get angry just move away from her and go to the kitchen and have a glas of water.

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