I have one girl child age 7 years read in class one I m from Kolkata last few months I hv seen so much changes in my child he compares & follow a child which is our neighbour her age is 4 years my girl wants to play wd them bt they kept some condition always ( one another girl which one is 8) they play with my girl & always say take any thing which they have want for playing like khilonas dupaatas bags pen. if we say no for that things she angry on us and say abuse us. she badly weeping for all in this situations. we don't understand what we have do. she also dont do daily routine like toilet lunch breakfast on time & stop all nessaciary activity for playing with them. her study also affect for all of this. I don't complain my child in front of you I only want a good suggestion for my child I always say every child is pari/ Raj Kumar of every parents. never compare herself to others because every one has kept a natural difference plseducation Corner
She is growing up so her behaviour will change. So do be accepting and patient. Friends will now take precedence till she finishes colleges. It has happened to us also is it not. As a parent persist in loving her. Listen to her. Talk to her. Guide her on making choices. Offer options to her. Look at it from her perspective. Along with your spouse set a routine for her daily activities and follow through strictly. She may cry for some days , you may ignore the tantrums. It is ok. Appreciate when she listens to you. Set consequences when she doesn’t. Consequences have to be followed through. Everyday allot time slots for all activities including study, play etc. you will have to exercise patience while dealing. You could spend an exclusive time -45 min on a weekend to hang out with her. It will help you to understand what she wants or likes. Slowly build your communication and be supportive. During such discussions talk of your anxiety. Listen to what she says. You will have to respect your choices especially her friends. Talk of your values and the expected behaviour. Respect her views too. This is very important. All the best and do keep us posted.