i shout at him when dont listen to me. I say things again n again but finally i loose my temper n shout now after shouting he does not listen to me n also he begin to shout too

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Updated on Nov 06, 2017

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Children do as we do and not as we say. By displaying aggressive behaviour you are sending the message that it is ok to be aggressive. Hence he imitates you. You are the primary caregiver. Look at it from his perspective. Offer choices so that he can feel responsible. He is at an age where he wishes to exert his identity. You have to coach him to verbalise his feelings. When you get angry I suggest you move away from the room, breathe deeply , drink water and then return. This way you will have your anger in check. Please read this blog to help you engage your child better. https://www.parentune.com/parent-blog/how-to-engage-children-effectively/587 I hope this helps.

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