mera beta 11 years ka hai. uska behave ghar me bahut kharab hai. sabhi ke sath misbehave karta hai. meri tou koi bhi baat nahi sunta. shout karta hai ..ladai karta hai.... uski koi bhi baat agar nahi mani jati tou mis behave karta hai.... mujhe samjah nahi aa raha main use kaise samjhaun

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mera beta 11 years ka hai. uska behave ghar me bahut kharab hai. sabhi ke sath misbehave karta hai. meri tou koi bhi baat nahi sunta. shout karta hai ..ladai karta hai.... uski koi bhi baat agar nahi mani jati tou mis behave karta hai.... mujhe samjah nahi aa raha main use kaise samjhaun

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I understand your concern. Please find some handy tips here- https://www.parentune.com/parent-blog/10-ways-to-deal-with-back-talking/514 https://www.parentune.com/parent-blog/is-your-teen-rude-and-back-talking-to-you/261 Your son is a pre teen. There will be changes in his body and mind. Please understand from his perspective. This is attention seeking behaviour. You will have to change your way of questioning and also your attitude towards him. Use humour while talking to him. Give him options to choose from. Take him on walks or car drives to engage in conversation as teen boys prefer to beside you while talking. Make this once a week ritual. During such talks gently broach the topic of his future goal. Then guide him on reaching his goals and assure your support. At this stage he may not share Much about school and friends. So create a dinner ritual where each of you share your daily experiences. Be more accepting and patient with the changes. Please be more appreciative. Sit down with him and set a routine. Break his study time into slots of 45 min study and 5 min break. Treat him to an extra hour of play in the weekend if he completes his tasks for the week. Please read this - https://www.parentune.com/parent-blog/parenting-teen/123 I hope this helps. All the best and do keep us posted.

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