meri 11saal ki beti h,vo bhut hi jiddi h,na ghar ke koi kam karti h,na pdhai thik se karti h,kuch bhi bolo to gussa karti hor roti hkoi baat nahi sunti,uske dekha dekhi mera3. 5 saal ka beta bhi asa hi karne laga h,mai kya kru dant or maar ka bhi koi asar nahi ho raha h,bhut paresaan hu kya krueducation Corner
It is attention seeking behaviour. She is seeking her share of attention and love. So please allot exclusive 25 minutes to be with her and for her. Do be patient and do not take it personally. You need to allot separate time slots for each of them. She is a pre teen now. There will be changes in her behaviour. Listen to her. What is making her angry or irritable? Offer choices to her. When you have your talks with her do not nag her. Just hang out with her. Understand from her perspective. Listen without judging her. Most important is use humour to deal with situations. Being calm is important. If you get anxious or angry it will transfer to the children. Do deal patiently. Deep breathe before you react. Move away from them when you get upset. Come back after few minutes and you will be able to tackle better.