My child is 4. 5 years of started going to school from April 2019. He is a single child but he is been taken care by his grandparents as me and my husband is working. he plays in a park for 10 minutes before entering school also plays after coming out from school. but when asked to study he is very reluctant. he starts crying and hitting. since we both come at home at 8pm i can only give him special time after 8. but his father doesn't give time at all. we also spend quality time on weekends. i am worried about his aggressive behaviour. his father thinks that he needs a sister or a brother but am nor interested in taking another child as the expenses are very high and our income is also low .I am very practical and my intention is to give attention to my child and make him a good human being. require suggestion please

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Updated on Sep 09, 2019

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Answer:
I understand your concern. Yes having another child will not solve the issues. It is just attention seeking behaviour. So maybe you could have a tutor who will supervise his learning. Engage a tutor who will make learning fun and interactive. Or your could make a deal with him where he plays and relaxes till you come. Then it is study time. Half hour before bed time you can hang out with him as special time. Between yo usnd your husband you will have to work out a schedule. These are precious years.

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