my daughter is 13 years old. she is having a boyfriend. how can I explain her that this is not the right time to do all this. she has to focus on her studies. I came to know this through her messages. she is not knowing that I am aware of this. and plz help with the solution. I don't want her to carry on with this at this age.

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totally empathising you with your concern.May i know what do you mean by having a boy friend? Because kids at this has mutual attraction towards eachother. whether their relationship is healthy or not we need to look after , i dont mean encourage any romantic relationship, i mean let us ensure she knows her limits and aware of her feelings caused by temporary harmonal changes. Meanwhile i recommend you calm down and trust the process and to have harmonious,open and friendly relationship with her. Pls get back to us. In posting about her kind of relationship to find any resolution further thank you