my elder son is 13+. it seems he is not intetested in any thing . just want to sit at home and play with his toy cars or vehicles. or soft tous with his younger brother. Seems he is not comfortable with his peers. Become angry very quickly. Often behaves very irritated. Don't bother about school timing. In the morning time me and my husband is like his slaves beta jaldi utho nahi to school ke liye late ho jayega. Get ready soon please. drink your milk you are getting late for School. but he is like uh doesn't matter. he doesn't speak but keep on doing everything at his own speed. Most of the time we run behind bus. If we try to raise voice he also start answering back. We are worried about his behaviour since he was 7 or 8 years old. I tried to councel him in normal time separately continuously trying to talk to him about his behaviour explaining him the complicacy of life in simple words. explaining him how we feel helpless when he behaves like that. Is there something which is troubling you. but he remain silent he just says i also don't know main kyo pareshanhojata hoon. mujhe kuch samajh nahi aata.

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There could be something that might be bothering him or he is having low self confidence. Spend more and more time with him, and for some time just stop saying him anything at all.. Even if he wants a break from school for a day or two let him have. Go out with him, have some family time at dinners, shopping, movies.. And in meanwhile just talk about any of your own experiences, rather than him and his habits.share your period of school, college, and how you dealt with common problems with friends. Make him comfortable that he can discuss any thing with you, also at same time be open that since he's a teenager now there is bound to be numerous changes in him both physically and a turmoil of hormones. A girl in life, or him wanting to be friends with a girl, him wanting to experiment with his looks all are normal. Your role comes in to make him understand the boundaries and have him trust that he can be open with you for anything. But right now, give him a break and give few days of his own.. https://www.parentune.com/parent-blog/are-you-having-trouble-communicating-with-your-teenager/348

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