my son 3yr and 1month old is very active but its very difficult to change his task in which he is enjoying he started crying , throwing object ,beating that person. and he is more fond of doing a work for which we denied along with notifying us that i m doing this . he is accepting the change like dont wear new dress, dont ready to wear festive costumes. when we shout on him he ignore and continue to doing same thing. so kindly advise us how to behave with our kid that to react or not

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At this age he is establishing his identity. The most important word he learns is NO. He is learning to see the world in his perspective and he will want to make his own choices. So do not take it personally. Instead listen to your child when he argues- what is he trying to convey? Give him the option to choose for example before his bath- you have to have your bath. He will say No. so then say - ok I see you are playing . So you decide -5 min from now or 10 min? He will choose the time. So value his independent thinking.try to see from his view. Now if you allow him to exercise his opinion and idea he will grow up to be an independent person. I hope this helps.

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