My son AYUSH is 4yr old. I am a working woman. And my husband stays away in another district. He come 12-15 days alternate. He is very intelligent. But He is be coming unmanageable day by day. What ever He is asked to do (to change dress ,to study, to paint, to drink water etc. ), He Just say,"no". What ever He is told not to do, he Just repeats that. In one word i Just have to force him to do anything either by giving him some bribe or by shouting on him and sometime by beating which i really don't wanna do. But i cant understand how to tackle him. He is becoming aggressive day by day in home. He goes to pre school. Earlier He was very interested to study, to learn new educational things. But now He Just avoids it, very much reluctant to seat to study, specially to write or draw( which was his favourite activity) , not even for 15 min. Pls suggest Me what to do?

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Updated on Jun 24, 2017

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As u stated you and your husband live apart due to work.. Such things are difficult for a child of 4yrs to understand.. And they even don't know how to clearly express it. Not to forget, this era is of gadgets, children often pick up things from around, weather from some cartoon they are watching, some friends arounds, or any agreesive game being played in mobile.. Try to observe from where is he picking up this behavior also for few days just leave saying him anything or scolding him.. Later try to talk if there's anything that's bothering him at school, back home, is he missing his father, is anything of your's he doesn't like... Let him speak and instead of just denying or telling him his mistakes, explain as why you ask him to do certain things certain way...if you find something of you which you can change as well, do.. Here's a blog that may help you too.. https://www.parentune.com/parent-blog/parenting-by-example/663?lang=en

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