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Richa Aggarwal, Counselling Psychologist


Apr 02, 2020 | 2 : 00 PM to 3 : 25 PM

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my one month pre term baby delivered at 8 month doesn't feel comfortable while i hold her. she cries....

my one month pre term baby delivered at 8 month doesn't feel comfortable while i hold her. she cries often. she is only comfortable with her grandmother. how can i improve the attachment with my baby. i need a proper guidance on how to do parenting. how inculcate good values, behaviours, habits etc.

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hi gayathri. I think its ok . may be your child is having some other problem. don't feel bad about it. i think this is your first child so may be you are getting more careful with things. you can take guidance from your mother in law or mother on how to hold baby. breasteeding your baby and take a baby with soft baby wraps in that way she will not feel discomfort. 2020-04-02 14:06:39
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and alsoAap kosis kare ki 6 months tak exclusive breastfeed karwaye. Apni diet ka dhayan de khane masoor ki daal, hari sabji jaise ki palak le, methi ke dane, lehsun, jeera aur masoor ki daal le. Iske alawa aap fruits aur milk le, jyada pani bhi bhi piye aur bache ko breastfeed karwate rahe. Baby jitna suk karega utna he milk production hoga. Agar baby ka wajan badh raha hai aur active hai toh paresan na ho aur apne doctor se mile. 2020-04-02 14:07:25
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Hi Mam.My daughter is 6 years .Wanted to know which are best ways to make her obey .Sometimes she li....

Hi Mam.My daughter is 6 years .Wanted to know which are best ways to make her obey .Sometimes she listens & obeys but sometimes she is a bit stubborn & adamant & does things her own way.She is good in studies, drawing & craft & dance.

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hi Mam aap notice karen ki woh kin occassions pe apki baat nahi sunti. ho sakta hai usko kych batein apne dhang se chahati ho toh uska best tarika hai ki thoda manipulate karke situation ko handle karen mano woh phone pe rehna chahati ho aur aap chahetein hein ki wo screentime kam kare toh aap usko kisi board game mein laga sakte hain ya uske interest ki koi activity kara sakte hain lekin apk uske sath involv ehonge toh zyada chances hai ki wo mane 2020-04-02 14:14:41
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also aap star chart maintain kar sakte hain 2020-04-02 14:15:29
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aap usko har bat manane pe ek star dein aur jab 1 certain amount of stars collect ho jayen toh aap usko uske pasand ka gift de sakte hain. ye chart aap apne fridge ya kisi visible plac epe laga sakte hain 2020-04-02 14:16:55
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Mam Meri beti 30din ki ho gyi h wo Mera dudh bhut ma'am peti h aur powed ka jdya pite h mjh dudh kam....

Mam Meri beti 30din ki ho gyi h wo Mera dudh bhut ma'am peti h aur powed ka jdya pite h mjh dudh kam ata h me kya kru plz ap btye aur jb se hue h bhuat soti h khelti kam h koi prblm to no hna plz suggest me

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Aap kosis kare ki 6 months tak exclusive breastfeed karwaye. Apni diet ka dhayan de khane masoor ki daal, hari sabji jaise ki palak le, methi ke dane, lehsun, jeera aur masoor ki daal le. Iske alawa aap fruits aur milk le, jyada pani bhi bhi piye aur bache ko breastfeed karwate rahe. Baby jitna suk karega utna he milk production hoga. Agar baby ka wajan badh raha hai aur active hai toh paresan na ho aur apne doctor se mile. 2020-04-02 14:35:11
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if babay refuses to eat how to give her solids my baby is 9 months and teething so does not open her....

if babay refuses to eat how to give her solids my baby is 9 months and teething so does not open her mouth

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my 3.7 years son irritation of sound what is the reason he fells so scared irritate the sounds

my 3.7 years son irritation of sound what is the reason he fells so scared irritate the sounds

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some kids have senstivity to sound but no need to worry you can initially give your child ear buds or ear plugs and gradually you make him hear sounds at different intensity and volume. gradually incresing his sound tolerance and start with pleasant sounds gradually moving towards little unpleasant ones the purpose here is to condition the child for these sounds so that he may be able to tolerate first and then become accustomed to them 2020-04-02 14:43:40
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My 7 year old argues at length with me for hours.If asked to help in household chores,he would ignor....

My 7 year old argues at length with me for hours.If asked to help in household chores,he would ignore all requests.He is very moody and will not move an inch unless he wishes to. How do I change his behaviour?

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see sneha if you will keep on arguing with your child he will bounce back. actually with time he has got conditioned to it and repeatedly doing it to break the chain you will have to step back and instead of arguing with him at that point you just leave the place on pretext of genuinely doing some work but do not show any anger while leaving the argument neither verbally nor nonverbally.means dont show any kind of anger to child. i know it is difficult to do at that moment but for his sake we have to be patient and then wait for him to settle down . if u can give me any instance i can elaborate you more on that 2020-04-02 14:26:46
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My 11 year old girl is very good at cooking up stories. She would immediately share a story which se....

My 11 year old girl is very good at cooking up stories. She would immediately share a story which seems so real ,that one has to believe it. Please explain why is she doing so. How do I make her speak the truth and not cook up stories.

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mehak ye janana bahut zaruri hai ki kya wo ye stories bachpan se hi cook kar rahe hai ya kuch time se 2020-04-02 14:45:54
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My Daughter is 5.5 year old. Very stub born in nature, at time it becomes very difficult to handle h....

My Daughter is 5.5 year old. Very stub born in nature, at time it becomes very difficult to handle her. For example she will not allow to comb her hair or allow me to tie her hair and will cry like anything. She does this very frequent. She would want to win in every game which she will play with her grandpa and will not follow the game rules if she loose , will cry at peak of her voice. How should I handle this?

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ishita i can understand what u r going through. its good u gave an example. if she dont let u comb her hair just tell her why u are doing it to maintain the hygiene to keep her tresses strong to look gus and so on so forth. some child need to know reason behind whatever the have to do and they feel satisfied . its just you have to be little patient with her and she will be fine. 2020-04-02 14:50:14
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as far as winning is her passion just narrate her stories based on moral values where winning is not important but giving your 100 percent is. 2020-04-02 14:51:20
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Meri 9 saal ki beta is coronavirus ke chatey bhut depressed rehne lagi hai.Sara din hum sabko kuch h....

Meri 9 saal ki beta is coronavirus ke chatey bhut depressed rehne lagi hai.Sara din hum sabko kuch ho jayega, duniya khatam hone wali hai, aise baatein karti hai. Mai usey kaise samjhaun, meri madad Karey.

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mam ye bahut important hai ki aap corona virus ko zyada detail mein discuss na karen ghar par aur zyada news channel na dekhen aap ko update chahiye toh bus din mein ek baar le len aur usko kisi activity mein busy karwn board games khelen uske sath. aap usko chote chote ghar ke kam karwayen apni wardrobe arrange karn eko sikhaye family ke sath funfiled activities karayen. in short usko busy rakhen 2020-04-02 14:55:01
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my 14 year old girl is always spending time on gadgets? She is either making videos on tiktok , chat....

my 14 year old girl is always spending time on gadgets? She is either making videos on tiktok , chatting with friends or watching videos? She is addicted to her iPad and behaves weirdly if scolded. she starts shouting if it is taken away? How do I deal with her?

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hi. talk to your child and fix a amount of time she is going to spend on screen. it is imp to fix a screen time initially it would be difficult to take phone from her but once you start spending time with her on activities like playing board games asking her help in kitchen or household chores baking or cooking items with her. spending time with family members in more creative way and most importantly we as parents we have to set an example for our child. they tend to copy adults be a role model to ur child and then you see how things changes for better 2020-04-02 15:02:17
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meri 6 saal ki beti bhut shy hai. Woh lines yaad karti hai acche se, ghar par bolti bhi hai, but per....

meri 6 saal ki beti bhut shy hai. Woh lines yaad karti hai acche se, ghar par bolti bhi hai, but performance ke time sab bhul jati hai. Iski wajha se uske grades acche nahi aatey. Mai kaise uska confidence badhaon?

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hi rajesh. jaruri nahi hai ki woh yaad karke hi bole. kyunki woh beech mein bhool jati hai isliye wo ghabra jati hogi. its better aap baby steps len pehle usko dekhke padhne do jan uske hitchkichahat kam ho jaye to phir chote poems ya quotations bina padhe bolne ko kahen and phir dheere dheere woh poore paragraphs bhi bolne lagage but please one step at a time. ek saath nahi. mujhe lagta hai usse isse madat jaroor milegi 2020-04-02 15:06:47
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My 2 year old child,keeps on crying the entire day.Nothing works out well with him. Even small small....

My 2 year old child,keeps on crying the entire day.Nothing works out well with him. Even small small issues make him shed tears. Is there any psychological problem with him?

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hi is this problem since birth. and also is there anytime in day when he is not crying and playing if yes then observe under what circumstances is he happy or not crying and also try to figure out what makes him cry the most. so once we are done with this we can do the increase doingactivities which make him happy more often and also check if he is doing this to seek your attention if so then certain times ignore him don't keep on enquiring that why he is crying just keep an eye on him and dont try to please him at that point. to be more clear i need answers to questions that I have asked 2020-04-02 15:12:12
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hi.. my kid speaks all unwanted things at home but when it comes to studies he dont like to sound al....

hi.. my kid speaks all unwanted things at home but when it comes to studies he dont like to sound aloud. He shouts everyone at home inspite if instructing him not to do those things... please tell what to do.

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first of all how old is your kid and can you name those unwanted things which he is doing as it would be easy for me to answer your query more precisely 2020-04-02 15:13:49
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hi mam my son is active some times he can listen our words if he interested otherwise he can not res....

hi mam my son is active some times he can listen our words if he interested otherwise he can not respond any problem

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hi how old is your son. 2020-04-02 15:14:28
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as your son is active sometimes that means he is capable of doing things that u are asking him to do. observe your child activity of 1 week andtry to figure out that at what time of the day and what activity makes him attentive and able to perform better and what activities disinterest him. once you figure out these things you will be able to work better on him. based on the findings you give him the work on top priority to be done at that time when he is more productive. also give him few breaks in between. 2020-04-02 15:19:41
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hi, my kid is 5 years old. he just talks a lot and talks in an unrelavant way like elders speaks. w....

hi, my kid is 5 years old. he just talks a lot and talks in an unrelavant way like elders speaks. what and all people speaks at road he just communicate those at home. continues talk which is not required at this age. not giving respect to elders and person who comes at home. inspite of instruction given to him not to do.please help

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hi mam this is sireesha sanka my son has 3.6 years old mam always he is running talking he always bu....

hi mam this is sireesha sanka my son has 3.6 years old mam always he is running talking he always busy with any t

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