Can't help shouting at your child? Maybe this will help...

im facing same prob wit my 5yrs old daughter she wnt listen mainly eating God cant able to feed her n hits her brother of 19months plz help m for a solution

Yes am also doing same thing am sorry for that but I can't control myself I got irritation than...

hi i also loose patience with my 4 year old daughter. i don't know why but she keeps on hitting her 7 months sibling n then we all yell at her. after 5 mins its the same thing. i don't know how should I handle her.

i do the same mistake, i really dont know sometimes i get irritated bcoz m hypothyroid patient and due to hormonal imbalance all my frustration come out on kids.... i yell on them like mad and sometimes hit them also.... plzzz tell me how to control my mood swings.

I too do the mistake I shout him when he did not hear me but here after I will try these techniques

Hii Harsha, kids of this generation r very smart, u might have some times unwilling fulfilled his needs wen he cried so he might have understood that n made it a pattern that if I cry I will get it. wen he cries for small things u should try to distract him or give him better options n speak very politely n make him understand I will share my instance: My son always wen we go to mall wanted to play in playzone n spend over 500/- n above for wic I gave him a option to shop any book of his choice wen we go to mall so now whenever we go he doesn't demands for playzone he goes to crossword selects a book n feels happy ...

Hii Ananya, I feel u should keep a check on the sleeping pattern if he has taken a nap in the afternoon then at night wat time is he on bed n wat all activities has he done between the nap n bed time...

teachers only make the problem worse.... nothing much has changed since our times... The minute u go to school for a drop off or pick up.... you will at least have one teacher who considers it her salient duty to complain about a child.. naturally that is when a parent loses their cool and takes it out on the child.

my child is very sentimental so we can't yell at her but sometimes we are bound to. please help me out how to tell her what is good for her

he doesn't sleep till I shout at him... stories, rhymes, songs everything I tried.

Pls guide what should b done... Same situation ... And d problem is she always cry for small small things , even though I don't shout evry time

my son is 4yrs old.... here is also same problm. ..he is act like he don't care about my shouting. ...not interested in studying, reading or writting... even in drawing. ...wants to play ...or watching TV always

my son is 4yrs old.... here is also same problm. ..he is act like he don't care about my shouting. ...not interested in studying, reading or writting... even in drawing. ...wants to play ...or watching TV always

Hi Deepti.. Most of the time I try to tell things softly but my son doesn't listen atall.. after few minutes he is on his same path again.. Telling softly doesn't work,, yelling at him also doesn't work seriously.. don't how to handle him. I am often loose my temper when he don't listen to me

Till the time I shout n yell.. .my child never stpls doing his act or never starts doing what I ask him to do.... Its very frustrating that till the time I keep telling him softly.. he never pays heed. He is going to be 10 in next few months.. .

I totally agree with Deepti

I have read all the comments by my fellow parents. Thanks for taking out the time for reading and appreciating. I am coming up next with part 2 of yelling blog, where I have some suggestions to control yelling.

Thts true... I understand tht... But loose temper very fast... Need good solution for it... If I go for explaining to kids... They don't listen or understand... Example.. Studies... By the time... They will listen... Time goes off... School test comes n goes off... School competition is very high... I can't let them to be average...

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Very nice information thanks

thank you so much..

true

Thank you so much..

everyday dealing with child whole day for routine activities with stubborn child is like a battle... being already stressed and tired autimatically causes to loose patience and get furious.. although that is wrong everyone of us know but it is really next to impossible job practically for present generation children.... hope i find some other ways to overcome these things ...either by trial and error or analyzing her more deeply day by day trying to improve situations.....