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Dealing with changes in your marriage after your baby arrives!

Nandini Muralidharan
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Dealing with changes in your marriage after your baby arrives

Having a baby can bring about massive changes in your marriage—changes which you had probably not anticipated. Our blogger parent went through the same, but very soon took charge of the situation and put her marriage, baby, and life all on track—well almost!


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Geetha R

| Jun 01, 2017

I can only have tears in my eyes bcoz my husband is in abroad and when he calls most of time it goes in fight only

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Khushboo Arun Dhingra

| May 23, 2017

I've also been through all this ... I had a love mrg a relationship of almost 7 years followed by 2 years of mrg ... had a baby girl last year n now I came to know my husband was cheating on me with a girl I caught him it was his affairs begining only ... with discussions of family n all we decided to give it one more chance but I m not able to come out of it ... this is increasing our frustration n discomfort to our baby I don't know what to do ... m a new mother n want best for my child

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Yamini

| May 23, 2017

very nice gal... u just gave words to every women thoughts... me also going through all of this ..loved to read ur article... beautiful ly explained

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Rachana Ojha

| May 23, 2017

very good thought... it helps to build a good married life ahead... keep sharing

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Shadez S

| May 19, 2017

Finally someone wrote it.. and its a woman! Thanks Nandini. I so wish every pregnant woman reads this and remembers it post delivery. Am 35 now, and i seen 60-80% husbands drifting away from their family and wife because of this. Its a very small thing which makes a huge difference. If you have an understanding and caring man, then he wishes he could tell you - we been there with you all this time, and will now and in the future too. we know what you been through and whats going on, and its bloody hell tough. and we appreciate all that. we are trying to help all ways possible too. and in our little own ways, we believe we are doing some humongous tasks ourselves, things that scare the sh*t out of us almost everytime, difficult, uneasy... well nothing compares to what you going through, but we so wish you gave us a second glance and maybe a few minutes of 'just-us' time as well you know. :)

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Haynes Jibu John

| Jan 03, 2017

thanq for this useful post :)

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megha rane

| Dec 24, 2016

wow... nice

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Mariya Shabbir Chauhan

| Dec 19, 2016

wonderful... my husband is more concerned about it.. he always doing the same I read in your blog... nice.. keep writing...

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Saba Khan

| Nov 30, 2016

amazing

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Gazal Sharma

| Sep 03, 2016

really very heart touching experience you shared. my baby is 3 months old, and am still living with my parents from delivery yet, will shift next month to my hubby's place, all alone, I'll remember all your experiences, and will try to minimise my fights

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Neha Jain

| Sep 02, 2016

Very true... Was feeling why it got ended.. Just feel to read it again and again

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Pooja Mohta

| Aug 31, 2016

Your blogs are very well written and apt for us new mom's. ...keep blogging...

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Bhargavi

| Aug 27, 2016

beautifully written...... thank you.

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Vibha Dave

| Jul 21, 2016

proud to say that he was always there to help without nagging even once till now.. and this article filled up my heart with more love and respect for him.. :-) thanks a lot

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Akanksha Raikwar

| Jul 21, 2016

very true...... nice DAT u shared the feeling..... I thot DAT rest couples r very comfortable n only I face dis feeling...... but thanks to my hubby..... DAT he helps n supports me a lot

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Deep Kaur

| Jun 28, 2016

yes its very true life completly changes after having a baby.... its a Grt article ...

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anita gupta

| Jun 25, 2016

Ya dis is really true... I feel d same.... my life has changed a lot whereas my husband is doing well wid his same daily routine.....

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Ankeetaa V Shobhawat

| May 20, 2016

wonderful n so true .The one who goes through it knows it

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Varsha Kaushik Sharma

| May 09, 2016

my situation is similar to sumac being in a joint family v wnt b able to spend time together nd dt too hez doing night shift so I wnt b able to talk wd him at nyt he comes in d midnight at dt time I was asleep as im tired of d whole day job

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Aben Kim

| May 08, 2016

when is it okay to have sex post delivery?

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deepmala bhawani

| May 03, 2016

Richa.... just msg him sorry for a fight thats it. and wait for his call. He ll call.

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amandeep kaur

| May 02, 2016

my baby is two months old... n initially i also went through dis phase in my married lyf... but one day i had a heart to heart conversation wid my hubby that we hav to make efforts to keep d spark alive... since then v r goin on movie dates at nyt on weekends... having my mother in law as baby sitter... i store my expressed milk in fridge so dat baby shud nt b hungry... v also tv together while d little one is asleep.. i ask him about his day at work wen he comes home n keep him updated about d new developments of baby n interestin things that i read on net anout babies... d whole point is to spend time together in any way possible...

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Richa Goyal

| May 02, 2016

hi.... its right.. me n my hubby every time hum fight karte rhete hai... aur abhi to sirf mera two month ka baby .. samajh nai aata kaise is situation se niklu.... hey friends... pta mein apni mother ke yaha aayi hu aur hum dono ki phone par fight hui thi wo bhi is baat par wo bol rhe the ki ghar aa jao meine kaha two three days mein aa jaongi aur he starts fighting with meine bhi gusse mein aakar phone cut kar diya... and us din se lekar aaj tak unka phone nai aaya.. what to do....

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Suman Jain

| Apr 29, 2016

I was too going through all these from 11 months.... there was no communication between us... being in a joint family we had our lonely time only at night in our room that too was spent making her sleep... now as she sleeps early we talk.... initially we faught, complained. listened to each other,cleared all our misunderstandings for other n now finally we don't have that awkward silence around us.. communication is most important

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Aabha

| Apr 27, 2016

All the points are so true! V well written... I had been through the same phase(my daughter is one year old nw).. and I still lose my cool at times but we both have come to terms with it and both of us get over my temper tantrum soon!!

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paurnima nalawade

| Apr 27, 2016

Interesting article... Helpful in maintaining relationships..

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Asha Jhawar

| Apr 27, 2016

same situation at present. mom f 1 year baby. lhv a4 year baby also. very struggling phase f life.

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deepmala bhawani

| Apr 27, 2016

After all day of his office work and my housework we do not get time even for a talks. Whenever it possible it converts to fight. And going out is not possible.

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Deepika Sharma

| Apr 26, 2016

Feeling the same at present. Everything you described is happening with me as im a new mommy of 8 months old baby. I just get irritated every now & then. I hope i recover from this phase soon.

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Laura

| Apr 25, 2016

Interesting tips

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Megha Dev

| Apr 25, 2016

Very nice article.... Good tips for continuing a great husband wife relationship.

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