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Why bed wetting is never a Child's Fault

Anurima
3 to 7 years

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Why bed wetting is never a Childs Fault

7 year old Sunny wakes up every morning and the first thing he does is check his sheets. He seemed to have wet his bed yet again. His greatest fear comes alive and he starts crying in shame. He knows what are to follow- his mother shouting at him, his father grumbling, his sister laughing and Roma bai complaining as she will have to do the laundry! He manages to stay dry during the day, but somehow cannot seem to control his bladder when asleep. Some days he would try hiding the sheets, but his mother would find them and the consequences would be worse for him. Over time this has caused a great deal of embarrassment to Sunny. His parents grew extremely irritated at this behaviour and brought it up at the slightest excuse. At the age of 7 years, Sunny was a very quiet, shy and a timid boy with very few friends.


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Lannier Willie

| Aug 18, 2017

Oooo I see. very grateful

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Supriya Gajanan Borlepawar

| Aug 11, 2017

Thanks for the info. But my so is 3+ sometimes at night and many times in school wets his paints. How don't ask his teacher for toillet but just sits with wet paints. Hw to help him pz guide me.

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Ponnalavimaladevi

| Jul 26, 2017

thanks for Ur information I will follow the same

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Ponnalavimaladevi

| Jul 26, 2017

thanks for Ur information I will follow the same

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Samiksha Mittal

| Jul 21, 2017

my son is 13 years old and in the gap of a month or two, he does bed wetting.. I was highly worried for him... your article will help me... thanks

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Avlina Dsouza Nadar

| Jul 10, 2017

even I my son having same problem we shout him every day in winter season he does everyday thanks for ur information I will take proper care .

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Satya Priya

| Jul 09, 2017

Nice information.... N mee to facing the same problem with my son

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saritha chalam

| Jun 19, 2017

thank u very informative

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Santosh

| May 19, 2017

Watch "How to prevent children from Bedwet - Baba Ramdev" on YouTube https://youtu.be/duaYhezKrkw

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Sudeshna Gangopadhyay

| May 13, 2017

Thanks. Very informative.

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Tania Bose

| Mar 01, 2017

thanku fr nice advice

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Jahnvi Takle

| Mar 01, 2017

nice information, my girl had same problem whose 6 yrs old thank you

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Neha Garg

| Mar 01, 2017

vry informative blog

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Tapash Mukherjee

| Jan 21, 2017

it is advisable to go for a homeopath treatment for the same.. or it should just be the standard methods practiced..

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Sudha

| Jan 17, 2017

very informative, thank you so much.

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Shikha Jain

| Jan 17, 2017

very useful blog.. thnks for da information..

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dr parul goel

| Dec 14, 2016

quiet informative. my daughter is five yrs and usually dry during day. some incident s do happen in a week or so. how do I train her for night? currently I am using diapers. she was suffering from low muscle tone since birth

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Aruna Pansari Chandak

| Nov 28, 2016

very informative

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Suhann

| Sep 28, 2016

very useful information, am too facing the same issue.

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Jyoti Sinha

| Sep 28, 2016

very nice article,very useful, thanks

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Shwetha Mounesh

| Aug 21, 2016

Hi. . According to my knowledge n survey we should not control or delay passing urine as it ll affect the brain signals. .

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Pragya

| Jun 29, 2016

Very nicely explained... Mother of a 5 year old girl.. I face the pain almost daily.. Can someone please give me details of Dr vivek...

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Ashok Panda

| Apr 09, 2016

Very useful suggestions,Thanks.

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shruti bajaj

| Jan 05, 2016

Hello Bhumija please give the deatils of dr. Vivek...

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Nidhi Sharma

| Dec 31, 2015

Gud suggestions Thanks

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biswajit das

| Dec 29, 2015

Just suggest ur sibling not to do toilet in the bathroom with eyes closed or half asleep. U can see the difference.

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Thakker Vinita

| Dec 29, 2015

Very informative ...thanks..

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Vidya Sajjan

| Dec 13, 2015

Hi Bhumija Bobby can u pls give me the details of dr Vivek

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Bhumija Bobby

| Dec 03, 2015

If any parent need any help in regards with betwetting for their kids, please do contact DR. VIVEK REGE... He is a very very gud doctor and specialising in betwetting cases...

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Geetanjali

| Nov 24, 2015

Thank you so much it helped alot to understand what a child goes through.

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jhoomer ghosh

| Nov 22, 2015

Thank u so much.... it helped understand as well as cleared my doubts

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masuma deverjiyani

| Nov 21, 2015

Very helpful

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Jaideep

| Nov 21, 2015

My 4. 6mths old son wets d bed but only occasionally. Mostly when he's stressed with his School homework or has had some scoldings from elders. Need to take it easy with them. Patience & encouraging them is need of d hour!

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Vinu Bhat

| Nov 18, 2015

Good article

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Jenny rai

| Nov 17, 2015

My daughter is 3 years old and one month, she is a very fussy eater , all she eats is sugar parantha, bread jam sandwich, puree and all the sweet things . She wont even try anything now . Kindly suggest and advise. Also potty training is a bog task, she will cry the moment we keep the potty train pot. Till now she is in her diapers and dont say anything that she wants to go pee or potty.

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Vidya Sajjan

| Nov 16, 2015

Hi, my son is 8yrs old and he do bedwetting in his sleep. He will be in deep sleep. What to do to control his deep sleep. pls can any one help me in this ....

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Shweta Prabhu

| Oct 03, 2015

My daughter is 11 years old.. I m very worried as she bedwets regularly since she has been a kid.. While she is toilet trained very early she is unable to control while sleeping.. V alarm ourselves while sleeping.. But if we miss to wake up she has bed wetted.. Is der any homeopathy medicine tht cud help us..

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Sneha Kotak

| Oct 02, 2015

very nice article on nocturnal enuresis... Homoeopathy also works wonderfully in these cases... not only is the problem of bed wetting solved,but the overall personality and confidence of the child is boosted...

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sri devi

| Sep 30, 2015

Very useful info

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R S Shalika

| Sep 29, 2015

Excellent Info

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Jyotsna Seth

| Aug 01, 2015

Hello everyone. I would like to know what can be done if the child is very busy in something , and she passes the urine and quite frequently. I have told to tell me if u feel like urenate. but she doesnot tell me. what can we do

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Jyotsna Seth

| Aug 01, 2015

Hello everyone. I would like to know what can be done if the child is very busy in something , and she passes the urine and quite frequently. I have told to tell me if u feel like urenate. but she doesnot tell me. what can we do

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Amit Sharma

| Jun 24, 2015

Awesome. I knew about the remedy for bed wetting which is to give the child walnuts & 10 pieces of raisins everyday up to a period of 10 days and it will definitely work. But somehow, I didn't give it a try.

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Jyothigowda

| Jun 24, 2015

Great Article... Thanks a lot

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Bhaskar Singha

| Apr 21, 2015

very helpful article indeed, especially the simple steps mentioned to curb the night wetting

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Shuchi

| Dec 26, 2013

Hi arunima, my daughter is 16 month old n i use a diaper for her at night. She gets up once for bottle feed n usually her diaper is fully wet in the morning. I have tried making her pee in her pot whenever she gets up, but she resists sitting on it n cries a lot. My mum in law thinks its my fault cause i didnt toilet train her from the day of her birth. What shall i do?

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Ruchi Chakraborty

| Dec 13, 2013

Good.... writen in simple language.... nice.... thanks

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Teena Gulati

| Dec 13, 2013

Nice Article.... really helpful!

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Aparna

| Dec 12, 2013

Thanks for sharing!!

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Mona

| Dec 12, 2013

excellent article .. Thanks for sharing this.

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Manjiri Palnitkar

| Sep 27, 2013

Hey Anurima, thanks a lot for this helpful information! It's really very difficult to be calm and change the sheet,clothes for the kid at late nights. I will definitely find out the reson behind my 6 yr son's bed wetting habit. I guess he gets too tired and hence his deep sleep. In this case witch home remedies should I try?

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Kanika arora

| Sep 04, 2013

Thats a great article.

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Geetha

| Sep 04, 2013

Its a good article and helpful for all parents including me. I have 2 kids, one is facing this problem, even sometimes I shouted on him. After reading this article, I will handle it carefully and follow the above tips.

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Kavitha

| Sep 03, 2013

Good one anurima, it's really helpful

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Renuka Vijay

| Jun 01, 2013

good one Anurima. I will try the prize strategy(giving stars). My kid is very fond of stars.

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Kirti Bawa

| Feb 15, 2013

Brilliant article Anurima! Thanks for sharing this...

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Priyanka Mukherjee

| Feb 12, 2013

Its really helpful for all mothers... many many thanks for sharing your ideas Rima...

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rekha gupta

| Feb 12, 2013

thnx for sharing this useful information.

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sameera khundmiri

| Feb 11, 2013

thanks for sharing this article, it really help me to handle my 5 year old son now... sometimes he wet the bed...... this article is an eye opener for us...

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Anurima

| Feb 06, 2013

Yes Neetu, a child may lose his/her self confidence completely if not supported by his/her family members.

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Anurima

| Feb 06, 2013

Thank you ladies. Amitha, great to know that you found it helpful. Hope it will help your son is some ways too :)

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Neetu Ralhan

| Feb 06, 2013

Would also like to add that as a child I was close to a child who used to wet her bed. The first whole bit of your write up (in italics) is word-to-word what she went through - which as you said can really mar a child's self confidence and self image. Apart from what you mentioned, sexual abuse can also be one of the triggers for this.

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Neetu Ralhan

| Feb 06, 2013

Hey Anurima, I must admit that I wasn't much of an online reader, apart from the research I bave to to do for my write ups, but having read your last few write ups has really got me hooked.. the easy read is like breezing through an issue which doesn't take a toll on the reader, the tone is warm and unattacking. Keep up the good work!

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sravanthi

| Feb 06, 2013

Thanks for the info an eye opener to all the parents...

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Amitha

| Feb 06, 2013

Hey Anurima.. it's a nice article.. this is very helpful as i have a son , who does wet bed at night...

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Anurima

| Feb 05, 2013

I am glad that you found the article helpful Shaista. Hope the article helps create an awareness :)

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shaista

| Feb 05, 2013

thank u very much for this aticle,i think it will really help a many....

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