anger and lying

hi Preety Gupta!a child might lie when he fears he might get scolding if truth is revealed, so to defend himself he prefers to lie. or it could be possible that he is imitating someone . please make sure he is praised and rewarded for telling the truth and please don't react or scold him when u get to know the truth. when he tells lies take away priveleges for Instance he should not be allowed to go out and play for a day. have same rules for all family members so that child could follow others. be a role model for him. hope this helps!

he hits yuvi his brother but before anyone say anything he start crying loudly.. that he didn't did anything.. instead say yuvi hits him..

Preety probably he gets scared that he will get a scolding , if u get to know the truth. tell him Hitting is not allowed and tell them hands are for folding to pray to God , for helping ourselves and others .put a poster in their room which says the same thing. reward him when he is good but if still he doesn't listen warn him , finally followed by taking away priveleges.