Child Psychology and Behaviour

behavior issues

Shaloo Verma
3 to 7 years

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Updated on Dec 12, 2016

anger and stubbornness in 4 year old. how to handle

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Megha Motwani

| Dec 13, 2016

hello shalu Verma anger in child is a very common issue every 2nd mother face this problem .I suggest you to try some spend time with him . during game give him role of leader he will feel responsibility n understand the difference between ryt n wrong . now these days mostly parents have single child so they sometimes became angry and stubborn give him sometime n feed him with love

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Shaloo Verma

| Dec 13, 2016

thanks shikha

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Shikha Batra

| Dec 13, 2016

hi Shaloo Verma! hope you are doing fine! Anger could be due to many reasons. please try and find out the underlying cause. is she getting enough attention at home? does she have a fixed routine to follow? is she able to express herself in words? does she get to play with age mates ? Shaloo whenever she is angry , try and calm her down with your hugs and kisses and divert her attention. play a game with her to channelize her energies in the right direction. teach her ways to control her anger by expressing in words whats bothering her. supposedly she says 'i dont like when you don't listen to me'. so u could say I am all yours. hug her and spend some exclusive time with her, playing with her or listening to what she has to say or even doing some activity. make sure u hug her often, kiss her , take her in your lap. we need to understand growing child doesnt indicate she needs less of us or our love. it's simply means change the way we love her. give her a patient ear and minimum of 8hugs a day and three lines everyday "I love u baby", " you are very special to us", " we are proud of u baby"!! for sure u will notice a change in her behavior. hope this helps!!

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Simran Verma

| Dec 13, 2016

agree with Deepti tooo

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Simran Verma

| Dec 13, 2016

spare some time in listening BK Shivani sister comments..... you tube .....how to handle ....blawww

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Shaloo Verma

| Dec 13, 2016

thanks deepti

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Deepti Thakur

| Dec 13, 2016

Hi dear. Give more time to your kid. Play, talk, become a kid. Take out atleast 10 minutes in a day when you leave aside everything else, and just play. Let your kid be the leader. And you follow instructions. Play is a very important tool in building strong connection between parents and children. Also, let your kid take small decisions. Be a friend apart from being a parent. Hope that helps.

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