Created by Updated on Sep 01, 2017
Hello Everyone, my child is 4yrs old n my problem is her behaviour... she is getting arrogant day by day n gives back answers most of d tyms... also takes more than 2hrs to eat 2chappaties... m so tensed by her behaviour which makes me to shout more at her... I know I yell I shout now a days toh full day I shout at her which is wrg I know by her behaviour makes me to do so... I think today I vil speak n mk her understand vth love bt it goes unheard n in end I HV to shout... plz help me out of ds by ur advice... tia
| Sep 01, 2017
hi Riya M! in this case, it has become a vicious cycle. u get angry seeing child's behavior, and child behaves so seeing urs. so u need to break this cycle. its advisable u take the invitative. talk to her politely, no matter what. even if she is misbehaving , don't shout, just leave the room without any arguments. when she is in a cool mind , go back to her , hug her, kiss on her forehead, make her sit, and talk to her discussing what does she think could be the reason for so much anger and this behavior. is something troubling her ?is she angry about something? spend time everyday taking to her, have some lighter moments with her playing, watching TV, going to park .help her in studies, praise her when she behaves well. avoid making complaint, criticizing, shouting or scolding her. Riya I am sure seeing u change , she would definitely bring change in her behavior . hope this helps!