Child and behaviour

hi Pooja shukla ! your frustration is evident and obvious. but if we assume for a minute that child has no control over it, it will be easier to deal with.. let's start from scratch. please make sure he gets fresh in the morning itself. wake him early, give him a glass of milk, take him to park, and then ask him to use the washroom.. if he is not able to get fresh in the morning, deal with him as if u r talking to a baby , who is scared of something which stops him from using washroom at school.. may be he is scared to ask teachers to use washroom , or he feels ashamed to talk about potty, he feels he will become the laughing stock.. or he doesnt want to use the washroom at school due to foul smell, or he is fearful of falling down.. u need to first identify his fear by talking to him politely.. hug him. tell him I understand u r fearful of this , let's find a way out. ask him does he want u to talk to the teacher, to allow him to use the washroom. the day he is dry, give him a reward, praise him, do special things for him. but in case of an accident please don't scold him.. please try this method for few days and let us know. hope this helps!

Actually shikha he say to teacher for eg today only he was with his teacher and ma'am toilet and she removed his pant hook also he went to washroom and stared playing there and did potty on his pant itself and actually there is no aaya also to help him. And he don't say when I ask with him and he say something something but not to related matter and even some one beats him He don't tell me.

I do understand Pooja! he gets involved in play, so fails to recognise the urge but at home u are there to remind him. Pooja u need to tell him what all can be the adverse effects of pooping in his uniform. one he may catch infection, two he may loose friends, three he may be called names and ..last but not the least reward him when he poops in loo. give him a sticker or a star and for consistent success. hope this helps!

Thanks shikha I'll definitely try lets c it may work. Use realise bhi ni hota when I try to ask him ki aaj potty pant par kun kara tho woh topics change kadeta hi as if he don't hear me