child behavior

Priya aap gussey par control rakhe, usey pyaar se baat karein. usey samjhane​ ki Koshish karein aur usey hug karein. is phase Mai bacchey chidchide ho jatein Hai kyunki unhe samajh nahi aata ki unke Saath Kya ho Raha Hai. hormonal changes hone ke Karan mood swings hote Hai. physical changes, social changes aur group Mai equations change hote Hai jissey woh samjha nahi patey ki woh kaisa mehsoos Kar rahe Hai. usey pyaar se baat karein aur gale lagakar saamjhayein ki aap uski dost banna chahti Hai. uske unkahe shabdon ko samjhein aur accha behave karne par tareef bhi karein. asha Karti hoon aapko issey madad milegi.

Hi, my son is 9+. Three years back we are shifted in very posh society and put my son in best international school after that we saw very drastic change his behavior. He stopped studying and telling lie, making stories to hide his mistake even he start stolen other kids toy if we r not buy for him. He always demanding for branded item and always fight for other kids. Teacher always complained for him. Before shifting in this society he very good in studies and never misbehave. We are planning to send him back to his grandparents house same place. Please suggest us.

Hi Nisha Singh ! I do understand your concern. But I believe changing the place and sending him away from u, might be too difficult for him to handle. He needs his parents to be with him and teach him how to correct his behavior. Involve him in community service , make him visit poor ,orphan children who have been living a difficult life due to lack of enough resources but are still happy .u could make him visit old age homes, homes for special children, and tell him how despite of being different from others , they are satisfied and still thankful to God. Sending the child to grandparents to control the child at this age would be expecting too much from them. U could also take help of a counselor. the change might be slow but he would come around for sure with ur love and presence around.