Child psychology

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Updated on Mar 20, 2017
My child is 8 yrs and 9 month old. He didn't mix with his age group,but now he is trying to play with them. But most of child came to me with his complaint that he is throwing stones on them hitting with ball. But when I asked him,he told me that they were troubling me ,not giving my ball and I got angry but didn't hit anybody. I don't understand how to handle this situation.

| Mar 20, 2017
hi Manisha! since the child wasn't going regularly for playing, he's still not adjusted and is taking time to understand the group's conduct so is the case with group as they too are trying to accommodate a member who's hasn't been regular. they will take time to understand each other. let him go regularly and deal with such pressure on his own. if u react taking sides, the matter will no longer remain between children. having said that keep a close watch that this difference of opinions remains to be just so and not get ugly and no one is harmed. teach him it's ok to take turns and listen to others and ignore certain things but its definitely not ok to be physically hurt or pushed or bossed around. children are innocent and have a great quality unlike us adults,they fight for a moment and the very next moment they overcome all differences and play as if there was nothing. Manisha sooner or later he will adjust. tkcare.