Child Psychology and Behaviour

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Piyali Ganguli
3 to 7 years

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Updated on Nov 03, 2017

Hi please provide different type of activities which i can keep my toddler 5 year old busy with. As we r in a locality where there is no playgrounds and my children don't have freinds also .He keep himself busy either in fighting or superhero. I want to distract his mind from these. please suggest some activities and a good discipline for him. As he is good in studies but he lacks discipline .How can i change him. His behaviour is getting aggressive day by day playing with superheroes. Though how the way i make him understand he feel guilty but again repeat the same mistake. His teacher also complain that he is a good student but he hit others. But in home no one hit him. Everyone love him a lot. but why he is doing i am unable to understand. He always shout,hit almost everyone in home and when i asked him he said this is a game. As batman fight he also do same. In home also seeing himself in mirror he fight alone. I am unable to change him. Please advice

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Smrity Sharma

| Nov 04, 2017

hello Piyali ganguli ji ,jaisa ki aapne bataya ki wo superheroes k cartoons dekhta h zyada usme superheroes fighting krte h to usse lagta h ki ye sb normal h ya thik h pr aap use pyar se baat kro ki hitting someone in real life is not a good manners, or jahan tk uske dada ji ki baat h aap unse bhi apni problem share kro us ke behaviour k liye baat kro ,Mai bhi joint family me rehti hu samjhte hu ki aisi problems hoti h pr aap strictly baat kro. or jb aap ka beta aap k saath akele me ho use bhi samjhao wo zaroor aap ki baat manega.

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Shikha Batra

| Nov 03, 2017

Piyali ganguli u can calmly and politely talk yr father in law, that he might be enjoying but others don't and God forbid one day he might get into trouble for hitting someone hard. this needs to stop and this change would only come when he politely tells the child not to do so.

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Piyali ganguli

| Nov 03, 2017

Thanks shikha but we live in a joint family. When he is about to hit I do but others don't like his grandfather he enjoy that and when i say him to stop. He don't. that why my child every time wants to be with him. I told many time to my father in law about this. but he don't listen and get hurt.

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Shikha Batra

| Nov 03, 2017

hi Piyali ganguli ! I do comprehend your concern regarding your child. please monitor his TV viewing and make sure he is not watching those superheroes cartoons ..instead make him watch Discovery, National Geographic and other such informative channels where in he can learn a lot. also when u know he is about to hit, hold his hand gently and remind him not to hit. u need to make this message sink in his mind that hitting hurts.. either through stories, role plays, placards, and constant reminders. praise him when he doesn't hit and uses his words to express himself.. hope this helps!

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