Control child

hi Umarani! if we apply it in our lives , we usually tend to forget things which we don't like. for instance , if u dont like a particular friend u would forget to wish her on her birthday , as ur subconscious mind has this message that u want to avoid her. so u have the answer in your question itself, since he doesn't like to write he forgets to keep his pen pencils back in his box. first u need to work on making him interested in writing. this can be done by making him write a page of diary ,on any topic of his choice or how his day has been , etc. also u could make him write with colourful chalks, or colourful pens on paper or a diary. display his writing sheet on wall or hang it on a clothesline . this would motivate him to write more. also he would not dread writing and would remember to collect his pens and pencils. besides this please put a note on front side of his box in bold letters " COLLECT YOUR PEN and PENCILS". hope this helps!

Thank u Shikha for ur ideas. As I am working he doesn't listen my words. He is very lazy. Now itself he can't do his own work. Otherwise he will take more time to complete a task.

Umarani please involve your husband and request him to keep a tab on his day to day performance at school and at home. it's time u motivate him to start self studying by alloting him work. u could give him test papers which he needs to finish within stipulated time . praise him for his efforts. mark syllabus which he needs finish within a week . make use of innovative methods to teach a topic such as reading books, doing research, collecting info, giving examples from everyday life, showing him real objects etc. hope this helps!

my daughter dont do her studies with concentration what to do

it's a very good idea... it really works...