cry in school

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Updated on Apr 27, 2017
my daughter is 2. 3 years old... i have started to send her in play pen... but whenever i drop her in the morning and pick up after class i find her always crying.... pliz tell me ...do i send her school too early??

| Apr 27, 2017
Hi Bimala, according to me you should have waited for 3-4 more months. She is very small to be left without mother. One more thing you can do inquire from the teacher if she cries when you are around or whole day she keeps on crying. Some children cry when you leave them to the school but after 5-10 mints she might be normal. And when again you are around she might be feeling that you will leave her again and starts crying.

| Apr 27, 2017
Hi Bimla, it's normal on toddler because that their first time when you leave them alone. I am agree with Poulma . even when I start my baby play school first week he is not happy when he enter the gate he cry when I went to pic up my baby he saw me and start crying again. but after some time he is familiar with teacher and student now he feel good and happy to go school. I think you have to give some time to your baby.




| Apr 27, 2017
Hi, try one thing when you go to pic up her and she see you then hold her on your arm and give her a hug. she may feel secure and not cry. and try to convince her that she made a good friend here. you notice some changes in her after first week to third week? ask her teacher she mingl with other children or not?

| Apr 27, 2017
Hi bimla.... am sailing in the same boat. Sent my 2. 6yrs old son to his play ten days back. Yupp initial days were very bad. He was crying throughout for 2hrs. Eventually he is better and settling. He loves his tecahers and play in school but still cries every morning on way to play. I believe its the anxiety we all face exploring new places. Its normal. Yes we have to be more patient. I have seen few kids taking a couple days to settle while there are few taking more than a month. Its all about the nature of todd. We as parents need to be more patient and act mutually with teachers. Recap all the things with your kid what she did in school, just to make school and home a similar place for kid. Also keep your self aware about nanies and the staff through your child's talk. And remember its never like doubting the school, its just about being cautious. Wish you best in this settling time......