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Hi Sangeeta! I do understand your concerns. your child might be the first one in order but she is still a child and would need same amount of love as your lil one if not more. now that u r sure scoldings do not work with her . try out a different method , nail it with love. call her politely, make her sit, kiss on her forehead, give a hug. say what u want to say politely and then listen to what she has to say. praise her for listening to u and sharing her thoughts with u. then if her demand is justified and not too much to be denied, accept it. praise her again and see the smile on her face. if u think u can't or u don't want to fulfill her demand explain politely why it wouldn't be possible for u to do so. Sangeeta children understand the language of Love really well. I am sure u will not have enough complains to make once u change the way u deal with her. have a look at this blog. u might find d it useful. Hey! I find this Parenting blog really interesting. I suggest you have a look too: https://www.parentune.com/parent-blog/love-or-fear-how-do-you-discipline-your-child/771?ptref=sa0l000030g00lf

thanks per wo esa kerne per thodi der sahi rahati hai bad me phir vesi hi ho jati hai .

Sangeeta aap pyaar se hi samjhaye. rules likh Kar ek chart paper par lagaye , usey pyaar se samjhayein. follow karne par reward Karein aur na karne par Jo consequences decide ki Hai waisa kijiye jaise ki, no TV, no outdoor for the same day, ya time out. mujhe lagta Hai woh pyaar ki bhasha se jaldi samjhegi. aapko tempers loose bilkul bhi nahi karna.

sikha garu ur really awesome love u thax for future suggestion for my kid toooo

ok Thanks dear friend

I am glad Trinayani And Sangeeta, u found it useful. tkcare!

Have a meeting with your kid and tell her, what everyone one will think, when she behave like this. And try to understand what is her expectation.

thanks friends