Created by Updated on May 29, 2017
hi my daughter is 5 years and 6 month. she is not mature. she has to scold us all the way. however she does not listen. she can not concentrate in studies. and every one argument about the matter.
| May 29, 2017
Hi Sangeeta! I do understand your concerns. your child might be the first one in order but she is still a child and would need same amount of love as your lil one if not more. now that u r sure scoldings do not work with her . try out a different method , nail it with love. call her politely, make her sit, kiss on her forehead, give a hug. say what u want to say politely and then listen to what she has to say. praise her for listening to u and sharing her thoughts with u. then if her demand is justified and not too much to be denied, accept it. praise her again and see the smile on her face. if u think u can't or u don't want to fulfill her demand explain politely why it wouldn't be possible for u to do so. Sangeeta children understand the language of Love really well. I am sure u will not have enough complains to make once u change the way u deal with her. have a look at this blog. u might find d it useful. Hey! I find this Parenting blog really interesting. I suggest you have a look too: https://www.parentune.com/parent-blog/love-or-fear-how-do-you-discipline-your-child/771?ptref=sa0l000030g00lf
| May 29, 2017
Sangeeta aap pyaar se hi samjhaye. rules likh Kar ek chart paper par lagaye , usey pyaar se samjhayein. follow karne par reward Karein aur na karne par Jo consequences decide ki Hai waisa kijiye jaise ki, no TV, no outdoor for the same day, ya time out. mujhe lagta Hai woh pyaar ki bhasha se jaldi samjhegi. aapko tempers loose bilkul bhi nahi karna.