Guidance for handling kid at certain situations.
Created by Updated on Apr 21, 2017
my child is very hyper and stubborn. kindly suggest.
| Apr 21, 2017
hi Priyanka! I understand your concerns. does he remain so all the time? or only when his demands are not met he gets hyper? how do u normally deal with that situation?do u fulfill his demands or deny it? what is his reaction after listening to a NO. please answer these queries to enable us to help u better.
| Apr 22, 2017
hi again! thanks for the reply! Priyanka u need to understand your child better. see what triggers this behavior. has it got anything to do with the way things are being communicated to him? is it the tone? or is it the 'NO' in your sentences that irritates him and hence this response. Priyanka the first and foremost essential is to keep calm and maintain your cool. tell yourself all this while that u would not let your tempers rise no matter what. secondly, frame your sentence in such a way it has a positive connotation and negative words do not feature in it. even if u wish to deny his demands , give options or seek his advise and avoid a direct NO . as the moment children hear a' No' they Confront us and seem to be aggressive to us. besides this always praise him when he is good. hug him often, keep saying magical words to him such as' I love u baby',' I am so proud of u', ' u r so special to me'. u will definitely notice a change in his behavior. hope this will help u!