Child Psychology and Behaviour

Handle the child

Vedashruthi Venkataraman
1 to 3 years

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Updated on Mar 07, 2016

My boy child age is 2yrs4months. My in-laws did more pamper him than his needs. Now he became very adamont. He will beat himself if we did not give anything wat he want. He will cry so much with a big sound. Iam totally restless n faded. Pls tell me the solution.

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Kalpana M

| Mar 08, 2016

Please see if diverting his attention during such time helps. try to see if taking him out for a small walk out could help. or divert by talking to him his topic of interest to which u have no objection.

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Shikha Batra

| Mar 07, 2016

Hi Vedashruthi! How r u? I believe if we could recall, our grandparents too must have pampered us like this by fulfilling all our demands. Grandchildren become weakness of grandparents and to see them crying is the last thing they can imagine. They do everything to fulfill their demands even if it means going against their own children. Having said that I am not justifying this but just trying to make you see the emotions behind their actions. All this might sound rude and inappropriate to us but for them this is absolutely right. I would request you to avoid arguments with them and understand their feelings behind it. Also as far as your child's behavior is concerned You need to correct him with your love and patience. I know when one sees his child getting stubborn,it gets difficult to control but expecting grandparents to change at this age and criticizing them for their this behavior could even make your child be disrespectful towards u. Have faith in your love, I am sure child would soon begin to understand seeing a change in your behavior. Also when u deny something to him, let him know why u r doing that through discussion rather than shouting or ordering him. Hope this helps!

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vedashruthi venkataraman

| Mar 07, 2016

They told same thing. They r not at all understand. Before me it self they told to child which is opposite to me

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vedashruthi venkataraman

| Mar 07, 2016

Sorry mam I already tried so much. They r very orthodex. Iam getting vex in home. We r trying to go separate from many months.

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Priyal Gada

| Mar 07, 2016

Even my son cries n bites other people around if he doesn't gets what he wants or it doesn't happens the way he wants so we let him cry till he himself realises that it's if no use to cry. Later after sometime we make him understand very politely what is right n wrong for him that time he understands but again he forgets but we don't every time fullfill his demands n make him understand n let him cry. It will take time for a child but I think u shud camly talk with ur in laws that child will be spoiled n give them examples first explain this to ur husband and if he understands u let him explain to his parents then I think they will understand.

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vedashruthi venkataraman

| Mar 07, 2016

Actually that is the problem, which I cannot do, my in-laws automatically will give which he wants either gud r bad. Their aim is only he not to cry. But after that also he started for another thing. I told them many times. They cannot understand. Daily fighting in home for this only.

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Nishtha Dutt

| Mar 07, 2016

Whatever you do please do not give in to his tantrums. If he wants to cry let him cry for a while. After sometime he will be normal and slowly he will start realising that crying or throwing tantrums will not get him anywhere.

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