Hello,I am a single parent.. my son is very good in studies.. but he is very playful naughty at home at school.. due to my stress I use to beat him. later I regret

Hi Saranya, I understand your frustration. However, if the child is good in studies then a little naughtiness is acceptable no? Sit with him and talk to him like an adult and I am sure he will understand and try to cooperate with you.

yeah I totally agree with u. but he is very naughty even at school.. I told him politely many times.. but he never listen.. that's why I get irritate and punish him.. I want to overcome this this..

Hi Saranya !I understand what u r going through. It's not easy to be a single parent and u r doing an amazing job . Yes frustration, anger and guilt are inseparable emotions. They do take over at times and that's when u feel weak and want to take out your frustration and unfortunately it's your Lil one who is a soft target and bears the brunt. Sarayna believe u me he is no less disturbed about it but since he is too small to give words to his feelings, his anger and frustration are coming out in some other form. It's advisable to do some relaxation exercises so that u r in control of your emotions. Saranya it is advisable to come out of the feelings that pull u back, accept life as it is and move on in life... for the betterment of your and your child's life. Till the time u won't accept the reality ,u will unintentionally keep hurting yourself and your child.. confide in a friend , share your feelings with someone and once forever come out of it and move ahead. You have your whole life in front of u, and u never Know what HE has already planned for u . Hope this helps!

Thank you shika batra.. you are absolutely true