hi I am mother of 8 years boy.
Created by Updated on Jul 07, 2017
my son doesn't want to do study. Even he doesn't complete his classwork also. He keeps delaying things . He always says "allow me to watch TV for 1 hour then I will study" but he doesn't do .Like that he delay things. I don't know what to do . I have tried a lot but not working.
| Jul 07, 2017
hi Pragya Bandil! please ascertain the exact reason for procrastination. is it that he can't focus and thereby finds studies boring? or he has Learning disability due to which he dreads writing? or too much of nagging has made him averse to studies. Pragya start afresh. fix an hour to begin with for studies everyday. keep yourself calm and relaxed while teaching . make sure u have lots of surprises to be offered to him once he finishes his work ,along with praises and lots of hugs . keep motivating him all along. give him positive feedback. begin with tasks which he can finish in short duration followed by a 10 minutes break.. then another subject. give him a smiley , stickers and a lot of appreciation. once he gets accustomed studying everyday, increase the duration to half an hour and followed by a break of 10 minutes. make sure u stick to promise u made , and consequences like taking away a privelege if he doesn't follow instructions. hope this helps!