hitting
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Updated on Sep 17, 2017
sometimes i hit my child he is 3. 5 years old ,and then i feel ao guilty i dont want to hit him ,plz help ao i can control my self so i dont hit him
| Sep 17, 2017
hi Payal Jindal , I can understand your situation, because my 3. 2 is so much noughty I suffered a lot, You are obviously a very caring mother who loves her child very much. What you did was wrong but it isn't the end of the world. Tomorrow is a new day. Make sure you apologize to your kid and explain that it is NEVER OK to hit. Try to find a friend for yourself. Maybe you can join a playgroup or something. You might meet another mom who you would like to be friends with and your child would be around other children. Win win for both of you. You might want to think about some therapy to help you get past your terrible childhood. You can focus on learning how to break the cycle of abuse so your child will never know what it feels like to be abused. You could take a community ed class. This would give you a break and let you meet people with the same interests as you. It is always good to take care of yourself.... it makes you a better parent. Good luck. I'm sure this was a one time incident
