Child Psychology and Behaviour

How can I increase speed of my daughter

Sangita Baja
7 to 11 years

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Updated on Jul 18, 2017

Namashkar Mari bati bhut hi dhire dhire work karti hai chaie wo study ho us other activities. So please suggest me kaise wo active ho

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Preety Nag

| Jul 19, 2017

thanks is not enough for this prompt reply.. I needed exactly this platform to talk about .. and here you are! wow.. you know the underlying issue is I deadly want him to be in first row... my expectations are higher then his performance.. and I am still not able to pace with him.. he is growing.. I am not. frankly. I want myself to be reminded everyday to give him enough time. thanks so much shikha mam. I will keep myself calm.. and take slower steps with him. thanks so much

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Shikha Batra

| Jul 19, 2017

hi Preety Nag! I appreciate your concern. u do seem to understand the situation pretty well , I believe it's your anger which u can't control. for that I would suggest u to find the underlying cause. pause for a while and imagine yourself hitting your child, and focus on his face , what does it say to u, it might say I am helpless Mom , please help me. he is not doing it intentionally Preety. now once again, go back , close your eyes and see what triggered that anger, was it actually the child and his behavior which made u angry or u we're upset about something else and he became the soft target.. Preety most of us were achievers when we growing up and secured 10's in most of the subjects. can u recall how many 10's did u get as a student? do u believe wherever u are today, u would not have been there , if u would not have secured a score of 10 or 9 in your tests . Preety numbers are just to give us an idea where the child needs more practice and has got nothing to do with , what your child would do later in life. so relax and let him take baby steps at a pace he is okay with and progress in life. Pretty u r a good and a concerned mother and I am sure u can't do anything that's not in the interest of the child. hope that helps.

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Preety Nag

| Jul 19, 2017

very helpful. my son has similar issues. he is slow in almost all things. and we have pushed him so much, he has lost interest in most of things, which has made him slower, specially studies. I beat him when he irritates me to heights and later I feel guilty and cry whole day.. makes AL together a vulnerable situation. I love him very much and want him to score if not 10, but at least 8 on ten. my expectations have made him go down to 7 or 6on 10. I want to be a good mother and he should later remember me with live in his heart but not pain.. help us pls

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Shikha Batra

| Jul 18, 2017

Namsakar Sangita Baga Ji! Mai aapki samasya samajh sakti Hoon. kuch baccehy information ko process karne mai time lagate Hai. aisa woh jaan pooch nahi kartey, iske peeche koi Karan ho sakta Hai jaise ki learning problem ya attention related issues. aap ek baar ek clinical psychologist ko dikhaye . aap bacche ko planning Mai aur organization Mai bhi madad Kar sakte Hai kyunki baccha itni Sari information ek saath sunKar Kai baar confuse ho jata Hai.. for example- aap bacahe ko Roz kitna aur Kya padna Hai mark Karke dijiye. aur ussey check karein test dekar, ussey uski speed badegi.. jitni jyada practice hogi,,utna uski speed tej hoti jayega. koi bhi Information ko chotte vakyaon Mai , saral bhasha Mai samjhaye.. aur ek baar repeat karien Taki bacche ko acchi tarah se samajh aa Jaye.. bacchey ko protsahan dein, accha kaam karne par tareef karein, issey uska manobal badega aur wah behtar performance ke lite prerit hogi. asha Karti Hoon aapko iseey madad milegi.

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