How I can be patience with kids.
Created by Updated on May 17, 2016
I become angry when they are not behaving good.
| May 17, 2016
Hi Ashok!I understand what u r saying. It happens especially when we are troubled/disturbed about something else and vent out our frustration on kids as they are the soft targets. It is advisable that when u leave office for home , try and leave your stress then and there. Don't bring it home. Secondly , learn to switch roles for instance when u r at home be their friend or their buddy . Play with them, hug them,cuddle them. Have 30 minutes of gadget free life . Just you and your kids. Listen to what they have to say, watch their million dollar expressions, laugh with them, do kiddie stuff , go to park , take rides . Believe u me these are all stress busters. U will feel light and happy yourself. Be a better person each day. Also if u feel they are misbehaving , there are better ways of teaching kids -first and foremost be a role model yourself , talk to them, discuss at appropriate times the appropriate way of behaving. Also we need to remember, kids are learning a lot from us and unintentionally we do not want to teach them , what we ourselves feel is not right especially anger and our inability to deal with it. Ashok they have their whole life , sooner or later they will learn. Take baby steps with these cute little creations of God and I am sure they will come around soon. Hope this helps !
| May 17, 2016
U can also go through my latest blog on disciplining kids minus the punishment component . https://www.parentune.com/parent-blog/love-or-fear-how-do-you-discipline-your-child/771. Hope u will find it useful!