how make him disciplined

Hi Puja, are you staying in a joint or nuclear family? How is your husband's behaviour with you? This apart you may sit down with your son and talk to him. Tell him that his back-talking hurts you and is not helping him either. Spend some time with him, talk to him, play with him. Probably he is just seeking your attention.

do not beat or harsh word's to ur son .give respect him. use soft words,

find out from when this behaviour started.. have a conversation with him ask him if anything is bothering him or is there something he wants to tell you but he cant... try to become his friend. Ask him if there is something he expects you to be or do but you are not. Analyse his replies... give him respect, and he will respect you back.

normally our children sense us, analyse whether you are or were behaving the way he is behaving with you.

Hi! Really sad to hear this... However these days we are upbringing our kids in very advance manners . They are better then a kid of same age of 80s. That means they can analyse things better and even can have opinions which they usually express by their behaviour. so get that affection and Respect from them we have to set good example for them so that they can really respect us. Try to be friendly with him and understand his point of view. so that you can understand the relevant reason behind his behaviour and then can take effective steps. One thing I would like to add it's very important that the mother should be respected by everyone in the family only then he will pay the same respect.