how to deal with my son's anger issues
Created by Updated on Apr 09, 2017
my son gets angry very soon... he shouts and yells. He begins to throw things or damages things... particularly when i ask him to study. He doesn't like doing math and when i ask him to solve sums he picks up any petty issue and start arguing . If i force him to do he starts tearing the paper of the book... I don't know what to do... please help
| Apr 10, 2017
hi Usha! how r u! I can see the situation has completely gone out of hand in this case. lot of strategizing and practice is required in dealing with your child. u need to work on the bond that u share with him first also work on his anger management skills. make sure when u talk to him , u r calm and composed and not shouting. also ensure u r not nagging him all the time to study. involve his father or a male figure whom he has regard for to talk to him and let him know through this person that u will talk to him only when he changes his style of talking. Be firm on it. once we have recognized the problem area I. e. he doesn't like maths, why not change the style in which he is being taught or take help of another person with whom he is comfortable with in studying. Usha consider this if we r being forced to do something we dont like we might also behave in a similar way. having said that I am not supporting his behavior but just trying to put it in perspective. please don the hat of a friend and understand what makes him behave so and work on his fears to help him overcome those. hope this helps!