how to give a good influence to my child
Created by Updated on Oct 12, 2016
hi I was a working wife but after pregnancy we moved in our Inlaws house thinking I would be able to continue my work. but things didn't happened that way . now I am not working from last 3 years and its taking a tone on my relationship with my Inlaws . we some time end up having huge and ugly arguments in front of my child and it seems she is absorbing it and starting to react the same way . I told this to my husband. even he agree but due to some reason we can't move before march. now plz help me how do I prevent my child from this kind of house atmosphere. the thing I do is not talk with my Inlaws at all and gave up my dreams for few more month. will this help
| Oct 13, 2016
hi Surbhi, it's difficult to live in isolation when u have more 2 members living with you. sometimes it's difficult to explain a lot of things to child and oldies as they are much alike. sit down with it husband and in-laws send ur daughter to her friends house or make her sleep. talk to them ask what's the solution don't tell them ur problem. just look at them as u look at ur child. u will fine it easy to talk. also tell them I will discuss things later when she is a sleep. its really bad to fight in front of ur child I hv experienced it my self. saying is easy then done I know but please let me tell you there is no other way out. keep ur mind busy. read book not a boring but something exotic to keep ur attention to book. engaged less with them. or play a game on ur tab or mobile. trust me this helps keep ur mind away from small petty things. hope this helps. games and book do help if u like reading. I can suggest some if u want.
| Oct 13, 2016
I used to face the same problem. What I did was reduced my engagement with them, played with my kid whenever I was free, took her out whenever I was aggravated. This actually solved my problem. But just one thing I make sure is never try to disconnect her from her grand parents or talk ill of them to her, as this is very important for the kid to grow up with love.