how to handle two children

hi poonam. I am facing same problem so much of sibling jealousy and fights over small issues. both of them are uncontrollable.

hi Poonam Pathak! we all are sailing in the same boat. not easy to raise two kids simultaneously but there is an old adage 'where there is a will there is a way'. just believe in yourself and u can deal with this . on a serious note u need to lay down some rules and be firm on it such as no complaints of each other will be entertained , no hitting each other, no name calling, even if there are arguments these are to be settled amongst themselves amicably, before calling it a day they should patch up, sharing is caring , one hug is a must and more are a bounty . THINGS to be kept in MIND : make sure u don't take sides , remember elder one is not always at fault, love both equally ,scold both equally ( if u must), teach them to respect each other . finally avoid scolding one in front of another and if u have to express your disagreement with one please do it in closed doors or when alone , not in front of the sibling. last but not the least rules are to be followed if not then consequences can range between taking away priveleges of both, both being grounded, no gadgets, no outing . u can write these rules in bold letters and stick the chart on their room's door. remind them politely when they forget rules. finally after all this I am sure we will be in control of the situation . best of luck dear. tkcare!

very useful comment thank you