How to make child listen without yelling
Created by Megha Mahajan Updated on Jul 25, 2017
Kid don't listen to parents
| Jul 25, 2017
Hi Megha I read a quote once , " Yelling silences the message , Speak quietly so your children can hear your words instead of just your voice " Your child isn't deliberately trying to drive you insane (they may do it successfully though ), however they will also immitate everything that you do, so chances are , if you shout, they will shout back as well. Sometimes, kids don't pay attention because they feel like no one's paying attention to them. When kids feel cared about, understood, and respected by you, they're a lot more likely to hear what you have to say. You haven't mentioned anything instances where the yelling happens , if you could give in some egs , I think we would be able to help you better !
| Jul 25, 2017
hi Megha Mahajan! in this case u need to do lil homework first. tell yourself before speaking to your child, looking into the mirror "Megha u will not shout", "Megha calm down ". also take a break for one hour everyday and indulge in what u enjoy doing the most.. learn anger management technique such as reverse counting, diverting your attention, deep breathing, visualization, imagery etc. go through this blog . hope u will find the suggested tips handy .Hey! I find this Parenting blog really interesting. I suggest you have a look too: https://www.parentune.com/parent-blog/stay-calm-yelling-does-not-help/2620?ptref=sa0l000030g020s