Child Psychology and Behaviour

how to mke my son undrstnd dt I cnt cm to my inlaws plce as I'm gonna get separated frm my husband.

Bhavita Naik
3 to 7 years

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Updated on Oct 09, 2017

my son is 5 yrs old, n insist me to cm to my inlaws plce wd him coz he wnt me over thr. he nvr miss hz dadda like ds bt since ystrday he is forcing me to cm wd him as my husband will cm to tke him fr Diwali vacation so he is worried now dt hl hve to stay wdout me fr so mny days n its nt dt Im nt cncrned abt my child, he is my life bt den how long I'm gonna fool him coz den he wl expct me to cm evrytime along wd him evrytime wch is nt possible. bt I'm worried fr my son also as cries n kind of a sfforcated wh we he shares ds plz let me know how to deal wd ds?

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Dr Shreshta Sathish

| Oct 10, 2017

Bhavita Naik .. I surely do understand what situation you might be facing.. it will be difficult for u since its a qn between u and ur son.. ur feeling also do matter.. but surely u will have to answer ur sons qns.. never avoid or turn down his talks.. he will now not understand but surely he will understand

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Bhavita Naik

| Oct 09, 2017

thnx smriti n shikha, s I told him dt I got a job so I dnt get holidays like him so I cnt cm, also told him dt if I dnt go fr work den I won't get money he understands fr a while. bt anyways thnx alot fr ur suggestions. n shikha its impsble to go n stay wd my in-laws bt s I let my son go n spend time wd him.

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Smrity Sharma

| Oct 09, 2017

Bhavita Naik g sach me ye ek difficult situation hogi ,Aap ka beta abhi chota h pr aap usse samjhao, usse weekends pr inlaws ke saath rehne do ,abhi mana krna use thik nahi h, agr AAP zyada force kregi to wo or bhi questions krega. Better yahi h ki aap apne bete Ko time spent krne do in logo k saath, wo bada hoga to aap usse samjhana. Wo aap ki situation Ko zaroor samjha.

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Shikha Batra

| Oct 09, 2017

hi Bhavita Naik ! it's indeed a difficult situation for u. there are two ways to deal with it , one is to share with him since u have some work u can't come along. second would be to be on good terms with ur in -laws and husband and for ur child's happiness and visit them normally. when he will grow up he will understand my parents are separate but they still maintain a cordial relation with each other. in both the cases avoid saying anything negative about ur in-laws and husband as he would carry this to his heart and would believe now what u r saying but later on when he will grow up he will question u. he would understand that despite of differences his parents respect each other. he would be able to satisfy himself with this at least they are on talking terms.. so Bhavita u have to be really careful in taking a final call as it has a direct bearing on ur child's happiness.

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