Measures to control agression in child
Created by Updated on Apr 25, 2017
My son is showing hard agressiveness round the clock throughout the day.. he threws objects at everyone in house.. Scratches hit them with every object which he gets handy on hearing a no. All of us make him underdstand amd discuss teach the consequences.. Effects.. But he put all these in vain.. I have no clue what to do.. He always asks for cars.. Toys.. Kitchen utensils evn.. If we say no.. Then he starts throwing tantrums.. Lie down straight in the floor and cries loudly.. Starts kicking.. Cant contol him at that point of time.. Am clueless.. I dont beat him.. I shout rarerly.. I keep patience all the time.. Kindly help..
| Apr 25, 2017
You can talk to your child when he is calm and in a good mood to listen. Show him the video of how he behaved , and ask him why he behaved like that. Seek his advise , by asking him is there a better way of communicating his point of view rather than throwing things, hitting, shouting and hurting everyone. Teach him appropriate ways of expressing his feelings and controlling his anger such as reverse count, change of place, pausing for a moment and thinking before he speaks, etc. Sometimes children find it hard to accept 'NO' as an answer for all their demands. You need to make him understand the same thing with the language of Love. I am sure he will understand better. hope this helps! Here is a vlog you might find useful. Blogs- https://www.parentune.com/parent-blog/how-to-reduce-child-anxiety-aggression/5803
| Apr 25, 2017
love and mother's tight hug at that particular time without the involvement anywhere else and complete focus over his actions without saying anything with a smile n love in your eyes is the only solution for his behaviour realization. i know it is not easy but the response is completely reverse as the child expecting... gradually he himself will realise his mistake and start speaking n loving like u r doing... my personal experience sharing with u.
| Apr 27, 2017
hi yaar my suggestion is to let him do what he want for one or two or more days like if he want kitchen utensils give it to him rather than saying no u behave urself as a kid too join him as his friend of same age play with him in the same manner later on when u find him in a good mood make him to understand about his behaviour. it's my personal opinion we should not always behave like matured adult parents some times make to move on as situation demands